My life as I know it...

Totally sucks

Published on October 11, 2004 By grins wickedly In Misc

Okay, everyone, I don't know if you saw my article about work and this chick named Heidi, but I need to update.

I found out on Friday that Heidi quit, thank God. I hate her and so does everyone else. We all want to have a party after she leaves 'coz everyone's so happy.

Work can be a dog. I get out of school at 2:22pm and go home. I get to be home until 4:30 at the latest and then I go to work (Burger King), I have to be there by 5:00. I work until about 11:00 and then I go home. I go to bed around 1:00am and then get up at 6:00 for school. Then I do it all over again. I hate it. I'm always so freaking tired that its not even funny.

I have a problem that I need to "talk" about:
I ride the city bus to school (takes me an hour). I started riding in May when the system started. My Problem?? I'm in love with one of the drivers. His name is Doug. He's soo funny, smart and sexy. I want to "jump his bones." I've never felt this way before. It's kinda scary. I feel such a strong pull toward him. I don't wanna sound like an ass, but I don't even care that he's married and has a son. He divorced his wife once already and it seems like it's okay since he wants to divorce her again anyway. He never even was the one to propose. His wife and her friends got him drunk and they went to Vegas and said that they should get married. They went to one of those little chapels like Britney Spears did.

I don't know what to do. Please tell me what you think. He's about 29 and I'm 19 (a mature 19).

Thanks,

*grins wickedly*

Comments

angfrayle

on Oct 11, 2004

That's infatuation. Seems like you've been talking with him, too. If he is sharp, he'd know you've got the hots for him. Self-respect, girl. If you have a healthy dose of it, there shouldn't be any problems having anyone for a friend -- even him.

grins wickedly

on Oct 11, 2004

That doesn't answer my question though. What should I do?? I have to ride home on the bus today too.

dharmagrl

on Oct 11, 2004

What should I do??

Seeing as how I like you, I'll be blunt: you should leave it alone. He's married and has a child. He's spoken for, otherwise involved, whatever you want to call it. If he wants to get a divorce then that's wonderful and he should do it...but you don't need to be part of his life until that happens. Do you really want to get involved with a guy who'll never be able to spend holidays with you because he has to be with his family? Do you want to not be able to go on a date with him because of who you might run into? Do you want to be a dirty secret, a piece of ass on the side? Because that's what's waiting for you should you embark on a relationship with a married man.

Yeah, he divorced his wife once, but they got back together again, right? Remember too that you're only hearing his side of the story.....

..and one more thing. No offense, but if it were my husband you were talking about like this and had your sights set on....I'd be looking to kick your ass.

grins wickedly

on Oct 12, 2004

Dharmagrl, thank you sooooo much!!!!!!!!! He totally humiliated me yesterday after school when I found out that he lied about how old his son is. He told me in like July that the kid was 10. So if he had the kid at 19 (like he said) then he would be 29. Yesterday I made the comment that he should bring his kid to Burger King to get some of the Shark Tale toys (they went to it this weekend) and he says, "Why would my 15 year old want Shark Tale toys??" I got totally pissed off. So, Yeah, I don't have those same feelings any more because that makes him like 35. That is just gross.

Do you really want to get involved with a guy who'll never be able to spend holidays with you because he has to be with his family? Do you want to not be able to go on a date with him because of who you might run into? Do you want to be a dirty secret, a piece of ass on the side? Because that's what's waiting for you should you embark on a relationship with a married man.

I never really thought about this before. Thanks for bringing it up. You're great.

..and one more thing. No offense, but if it were my husband you were talking about like this and had your sights set on....I'd be looking to kick your ass.

I know.... I've gone through that before just not with a husband. My boyfriend was cheating on me with my ex-best friend. It was her who instigated the whole thing. We haven't talked since then.

Thanks and lovvens,
*grins wickedly*

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