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I wrote the above mentioned article about 5 days ago (I'm not exactly sure) and have some updates since then.
The article was about my "infatuation" with one of the bus drivers for the city bus. I received some really good replys and thanks to all who took the time.
Since then I found out that Mr. Doug was LYING to me and that his son is NOT 10 yrs. old. The kid is 15, FIFTEEN!!! I was so pissed off. Then when I confronted him about it he said that he meant to say that his son was 10 yrs. old when he first got divorced from his wife. So if he had this boy at the age of 18 that would make Mr. Doug let's see.................33 yrs old. And I am pretty sure that even though he is the HORNIEST guy I know, he did not have that boy exactly at the age of 18. So I'm guessing that he's more like 34 or 35. So that would make him about 15 years older than me. THAT'S GROSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yesterday I was on the bus going home and Doug and I were talking about this guy that I work with who is gay and he says "Do you have 'Gaydar'?" and sticks his fingers up in the air like antennae and wiggles them around. Then some black guy (African-American for those of you who want to be politically correct) waves down the bus. He gets on the bus and me and Doug keep talking. Doug kept on saying that I liked Homo-sex-uaallls (that's how he pronounced it) because I said that I used to have a crush on the gay guy at work. Then I said "No 'Bigg Daddy' (his nickname) I liked him when I was like 16 that's 3 years ago." The black guy then asks how old I am. I said 17 just to be careful and Doug said "No you're not. I thought you were 19." Then I said that yeah I was and blah, blah, blah, and glared at him. Then Doug says "Yeah, she's LEGAL."(!!!!!!!) I almost strangled him.
Then this black dude says "Ohh, hey if you want to hook up come meet me at the Bismarck Motor Inn (it's a really crappy motel that the state penn puts recently released inmates in until they can find a place. It's really gross and nasty. Think bugs and vomit and mice and other such wonderful things.) and maybe we can get together and get somethin' goin'." I'm thinking "Not in your lifetime scum." I know that sounds mean but I live in a trailer court with like two gangs and I know not to even think about it. I was gangraped when I was 15 while I was walking my dog and I had said "Maybe some other time." to the guys. So I was totally freaked out by this guy doing and saying this.
At the next transfer point I got off to go to the bathroom in the mall, and the whole time I was pissed at Doug for correcting me on my age and hoping that the weirdo wouldn't get on again or that he'd miss it or something. I was freaked. When I got on so did he. He started rapping something about some chick and he's gonna "fuck this bitch, shit I'm gonna kill her and then fuck her and then have my friends fuck her too. Damn." He was describing this "chick" and he was describing me. I looked at Doug and he didn't look so comfortable.
As I got off the bus I kept hoping and praying to God in Heaven (if there is one) that the guy wouldn't decide to get off too. I would probably gotten back on the bus. On my way out I told Doug, "You're gonna get it boy."
I had to get on again later to go to work and I related this to the driver at the time and he said, "Yeah Doug told me about that and he says he realized that he shouldn't have said it." I was awed that a guy would admit a wrong to another guy. Especially Doug. He's not the type to do that.
This morning when I got on I had it all planned out that I was gonna completely ignore him and then when we got to the mall that I was gonna get off and then get back on and hide when he wasn't looking and then when I felt the time was right that I would pop up and say "What's Al's number again?" (Al is his boss.) "I think I need to tell him about the sexual harassment that occured on this route yesterday." But I never got the chance.
When I got on I had my headphones on and was totally not saying anything to him. Then I hear him say "Sorry" really quietly. I said "What?" He said that he was sorry for opening his fat mouth and he shouldn't have said anything. I guess I couldn't NOT accept that. He apologized without me being mean.
He said that when he drove bus in Denver he had some weirdos on the bus that would hit on the women and girls. He said usually he could tell who was weird and who wasn't. If a guy was making a girl uncomfortable he said that he would say something to get them to stop messing with them. Then he said, "I should have told him to stop making my girlfriend un-fucking-comfortable. Stop fucking with my fucking girlfriend." Then he looked at me with this look in his eye and said "'Ey man, stop messin' wit' my fuckin' girlfrien'." He grew up in LA, he actually talks like that, and it's kind of cute. Black talking white boy.
One of the other drivers told me that he told most of them in their meeting what happened and told them to watch out for this guy. He also said that the guy was doing the same thing to another chick on the bus the day before. He did the whole rapping thing and then once the lady got off the bus he stopped rapping. Doug said he did the same thing. Some of the drivers said that they would look out for me and Doug will flip a gasket if it ever happens again. He said that if that guy would have gone to get off when I did yesterday that he would have either gotten me back on the bus or would have told the guy that he would have to wait for a little bit to get off because he felt so uncomfortable about the fact that this guy could do God knows what to me if he knew where I lived.
So I no longer see Doug as a sexy hottie. He's more of a big brother to me or a young uncle. Does that make sense???
I want to give a shout-out to Dharmagrl for waking me up to what is true. I thank everyone who responded to that last article and am greatly appreciative.
Lovvens,
*grins wickedly*