She seems impulsive. How did you two come to be friends in the first place?

And selfish - but a good question.  Where you friends from school that just did not last the transition to adulthood?

She sounds like you guys should have a bit more sympathy... Grins wickedly no-one can blame you, you have tried and for that you deserve all the praise in the world, the best you can do is hope for the best when it comes to your so called friend....

Best wishes,

                    Kim

Listenning to the "churchy" lady would have led to more answers than you could possibly imagine.

Hello left field!

Anyway.... Sometimes we have to say goodbye to those we hold near and dear in order to progress in our own lives.  When your lifestyle or a friends lifestyle changes so much that it endangers you or has the potential to corrupt you then it is time to let them go.

Hmm, I know it's tough with a friend that never listens. A friend that you think you are talking to a wall. It happens to me as well. But a friendship of 6 years is something that shouldn't be tossed out lightly. Maybe you need a third party to act as mediation between the two of you. A third voice might clear things up. Things that you think (or she thinks) can't talk about to each other.

I know I'm starting to hate (maybe that's a strong word) some of my friends for being so stubborn and inconsiderate, but I like to think that maybe we are still far off from breaking out friendship....

It depends on what type of "friend" she really was. There are two types of friend really, those who come over, use up whatever they can and split when its all gone, and then there are the ones you can actually call up when you need a helping hand. A true friend is someone you can rely on. If she was just a user and abuser then good riddance to bad rubbish I say. Your user pic disturbs me, it sort of stares out at me in an accusatory fashon.

Mine or beths? My cow is just happy to be alive