Life is sucking hard right now.

I met this really *nice* guy on Uproar games in a pool game. We started talking and we got each other's MSN screen names. We chatted for about a week and then he started getting nasty. He always wanted to talk about my sexual experiences and have cyber sex. Then last week I started to chat with Danny Bassette and realized all I really wanted was a relationship where I can talk about anything other than sex. Danny has enlightened me on a few things and made me not afraid to block this guy from my list. I did it today and before I did it I told him.

I found out that he has been lying to me. He told me he was 23, so I thought that the things we were talking about were legal and then today he tells me: aight since you being honest my name is troval and im actually 16 but ill be 17 in december an thats the truth anything else. So I've been doing illegal things with a minor. I could seriously have gotten in HUGE trouble for that.

I realized one thing today. NEVER trust everyone on the internet. I feel like I can trust you guys because you open up your lives to everyone here. I know that I can trust Danny, because he's consistent with his stories.

I had one other online relationship when I was in 10th grade. He turned out to be really who he said, but it wasn't working out.

So, the moral is that you shouldn't trust everyone out "there".


Lovvens,
Beth

Comments
on Nov 22, 2004
Or don't do online relationships, I mean, NO ONE is what they seem, and it's sooooo easy to be whoever you want to. A lot of people are dishonest, and online it's easier for them to pick people out.

Avoid making online "relationships" especially avoid getting personal and you won't make any mistakes.

Of course if you DO trust someone and DO get screwed over only you can be blamed for believing.

t.w.
on Nov 22, 2004
Glad to have helped. And Tangled Wishes is right, don't trust me either
on Nov 22, 2004
You should becareful with online relationships, no doubt about it, it's so much easier to hide things. Don't be completely closed off to people on here though. There are some great people, who can become great friends. You just have to be careful. People in the real world can lie about things too.
on Nov 22, 2004
As an ex chat junkie I saw about 98% of online "relationships" fail., most are there for the sex and will tell "you" or "me" or "anyone" what they want to hear, to score.

Even tho I made no bones about loving my wife and was happy with her I still got more invites than imaginable. so july 2002 left aol and aol chats behind , best thing for my sanity ever........... the watchword is be very carefull with your personal info online.

trust should be earned not freely given ok?